BELIEVE WHO THEY ARE

Have you ever  created a relationship with someone ? whether its a friend, boyfriend, or relative . You are thinking things are growing and this person is to be with  you for a while. someone to confide in. Then the  reality hits. This particular  person starts changing , no more phone calls, hanging out, less conversation. You feel betrayed in a way.I know i did. You constantly analysis yourself , thinking its something you did wrong. when in fact its not you its that person. See , its  hard to accept  someone who was  showing you a different side only for their  benefits. Once they have gotten exactly what it is they've wanted they fade away into the night. You on the other hand are stuck trying to figure out what happened  because you  were genuine.Well ,guess what?  You need to stay the same. Don't let someone  who was only around for their benefit change you for the  worst.YES!! , It hurts to see someones true colors. But we must accept them for who they are or you will continually  fall into their  trap of pleasing them and forgetting about yourself. So im saying this for those who have been double crossed. BELIEVE WHO THEY ARE WHEN THEY SHOW YOU THE FIRST TIME!! This will save you a lot of pain in the end.....